Help Your Dog Deal With Visitors During the Holidays

Whether you have a new puppy or a senior dog, their lives get temporarily shaken up when you have house guests over during the holiday season. Having people over and cooking for everyone is stressful enough. You don’t want to also apologize for your dog’s behavior.

Set Your Dog Up for Success

The best way to prevent your dog from getting into trouble during the holidays is to support them to make good decisions. If you know your dog likes to “counter surf” or steal things off the counter, for example, make sure there aren’t tempting food items left within reach and that your dog isn’t left alone in the kitchen.

A good rule for life with puppies is “supervise or confine.” If you can’t fully supervise your puppy to prevent unwanted behavior, they should be safely confined to a puppy-safe area of the home or a crate. This is a good rule to keep in mind during the holidays — or any busy time — no matter your dog’s age. If you know your dog gets overly excited about visitors and you want to prevent behaviors like jumping up or aren’t sure how your dog will react, keeping your dog leashed during the festivities can be helpful.

Use high-value treats to reward your dog for appropriate calm behavior like sitting or settling down. It can help to make someone in the family responsible for working with the dog—especially if it’s a young puppy, a newly adopted dog, or if you are trying to retrain new manners around engaging with visitors. Be sure to praise and reward your dog for the behavior you want.

Help Your Dog to Make Good Decisions

Some dogs are excited about visitors entering the home, while others are nervous or uncomfortable. This can be due to a lack of socialization, individual personality, and breed traits. For example, some breeds developed as guardians may initially be wary of visitors.

Guests coming into the house can be particularly disorienting for puppies and dogs that came home during the pandemic. If your dog gets overly excited when the doorbell rings or when people go into the house for the first time, it’s essential to help your pup make good decisions. One option is to put your dog in a crate or another room before the doorbell rings. Then, you can bring them out only after the initial excitement has calmed down.

Give Your Dog Private Space

If your dog starts getting overwhelmed or stressed by visitors, it can be helpful to take a break. Bring your pup outside for a walk or some relaxation time in a private area of the home. Short and successful training sessions with visitors —instead of prolonged, overwhelming exposure — will help your dog start making positive associations with guests coming into your home.

As you prepare for the holidays, it’s helpful to set up space in your home to allow your dog to escape the stress of any festivities. Put your dog’s crate in an out-of-the-way place accessible to them but away from visitors. Alternatively, you can designate a room in your house for your dog to relax if they are struggling or being overstimulated. Consider using a baby gate to secure them inside the room for breaks. Give them a stuffed KONG or other safe chew, which will provide mental stimulation and help your pup relax.

Advocate For Your Dog

If your dog is nervous about meeting people, don’t force them to interact with visitors. Instead, put your pup in a private, quiet, and safe place in another part of the house for the duration of your visitors’ stay. Many people love dogs but don’t always engage safely or appropriately with them. Preparing your friends and family for what your dog needs to be successful can be helpful. Be your dog’s best advocate and explain to your guests how you would like them to engage, whether that means ignoring your dog completely or giving your dog treats in exchange for calm behavior like “sit.” If you have children visiting the home, make sure that kids aren’t allowed to interact with your dog unsupervised, and that they are taught appropriate ways to pet and/or play with your dog.


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